I chat with solo polyamorous writer Amy Gahran about how the relationship escalator can shape our romantic connections, no matter what structure you opt for.
Featuring songs by Depeche Mode, Jinkx Monsoon and Unknown Mortal Orchestra, here are my fiften favourite tracks about creating your own kind of love.
Looking for a dating app to meet others like you? Here are the eight (yes, eight!) apps I use and why I think you should give them a try too.
I chat with Riley Spicer about desirability politics, perimenopause and having moustache envy.
I've recently begun identifying as genderqueer. Here's everything you may want to know about this gender identity.
Exploring polyamory
How to get started
One of the most important things I’ve learnt while exploring ethical non-monogamy is that support is out there....
From time to time, questions land in my inbox and DMs from people asking for polyamory advice. That’s not surprising,...
Like a lot of people new to polyamory, I read The Ethical Slut once and figured I knew everything there...
Snuggle up with some self-love
Moving on up
How to get over a break-up
Being friends with an ex used to be something I found hard to imagine. I would sever...
A few years ago, I’d just finished lipsyncing to Shout Out to My Ex at The Royal Vauxhall Tavern...
Queering the screen
What to watch
When Hulu’s cringe comedy PEN15 came out in 2019, I wasn’t really...
If you’ve watched Jack Rooke’s comedy show, Big Boys, on UK’s...
I’ve been rewatching the original TV series recently in anticipation...
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Snuggle up with some self-love
Reading is quite a fascinating experience. Like a snapshot of a particular place in time,...
When I came across the term ‘skoliosexual’ last year, I was pretty excited. As someone...
Today is an exciting day because the latest episode of Ruby Rare’s podcast has just...
Who Paul?
Lifting the veil on the world of drag
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Minka: Hi everyone. Welcome to a new feature on Minka Guides which is...
I’m often asked ‘can women be drag queens?’ or ‘explain to me...
Almost adulting
Grown-up life advice
Hello there 40. I’ve finally arrived. Not sure what my younger self...
I turn 40 next week. Yup, that milestone birthday’s finally here. How...
What does 40 look like? When I reached this milestone earlier this year, I...
As I look back at my 30s, my career change stands out...
Moving on up
Getting over a break-up
Who Paul?
What drag is really about
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