Fanny Minka

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Polyamorous dating sites and apps

One of the easiest and most transparent ways to meet other non-monogamous people is online. While there sadly aren’t many great polyamorous dating sites currently, there’s a range of apps that allow you to be very upfront about your relationships.…

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UK queer hubs: LGBT events, festivals and more

If you’re visiting the UK to check out the queer scene, you’ll no doubt make a beeline for London. The capital is naturally packed with iconic LGBT events and historic places to visit. However, anyone who lives here knows that London…

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My Halloween with SuicideGirls Blackheart Burlesque

This month marks 15 years since I toured the US with the SuicideGirls Blackheart Burlesque show. For over six weeks, I travelled all around America with six other SuicideGirls, performing in 25 different cities across the country. So how exactly did I end up…

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I wanna dance: how to get your groove on this winter

Goddamn, I miss dancing! More than travelling. More than doing drag. I miss the fun. I miss the release. I miss moving my body in all kinds of crazy ways. I miss the exercise. I miss feeling like I’m compelled to…

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Fabulous new release and queer books

If you’re looking for something new to read, here are some of the fabulous new release titles I’ve read lately. Naturally, there are a lot of queer books reviewed here plus other tasty titles that have piqued my interest. Found…

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Why I have no problem with monogamy

As someone who regularly writes about polyamory, you could easily assume I’m a polyevangelist. You know the type: smug, thinks their relationship model is the answer to the world’s romantic/sexual problems, talks about it like they’re trying to convert you. I…

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What’s a female drag queen? Can women be drag queens?

I’m often asked ‘can women be drag queens?’ or ‘explain to me how you can be a female drag queen’. I must admit, these are not my favourite questions to answer. Often, the people asking look to Ru Paul’s Drag…

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Minternship: what it’s like to do a career change in your 30…

As I look back at my 30s, my career change stands out as a huge moment of personal development. It was one of the most transformative decisions I made in the past decade and required an extraordinary amount of patience,…

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Barcelona Pride: everything you need to know

Considered to be the biggest LGBT+ Pride celebration in the Mediterranean, with over 200,000 people taking part in the celebrations each year, Barcelona Pride is a wonderful time to visit the city. This cosmopolitan beach city hosts one of the…

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