While watching the dark comedy I Hate Suzie last summer, I was presented with an idea that initially made me laugh – and then made me think. The TV series follows Suzie (played by Billie Piper), a 30-something actor going through different…
One of the most important things I’ve learnt while exploring ethical non-monogamy is that support is out there. Weirdly, when I began this journey I thought there wouldn’t be much in the way of resources, advice or even positive representation.…
Astrologically, this month (in fact this whole year, am I right?) is a bloody big one. In honour of our very own sovereign Aquarian, Fanny from Minka Guides herself, what better way to celebrate this divine queen than with a…
When I originally wrote this blog last year, I could never have anticipated the reason why large numbers of people would end up spending Christmas alone in 2020. Like so many difficult aspects of this year of extraordinary change, being…
This week (1-7 December) is #CrohnsandColitisAwarenessWeek and I want to share my personal experiences of managing ulcerative colitis, specifically through… learning to vogue! (Among other things that are admittedly way less exciting to read about.) When it comes to managing ulcerative colitis, the…
As someone who’s worked from home for the past few years and encountered many mental health bumps along the way, I’ve felt surprisingly well-equipped to deal with everything 2020 has thrown at us. Clearly, none of us could ever be…
One of the easiest and most transparent ways to meet other non-monogamous people is online. While there sadly aren’t many great polyamorous dating sites currently, there’s a range of apps that allow you to be very upfront about your relationships.…
This month marks 15 years since I toured the US with the SuicideGirls Blackheart Burlesque show. For over six weeks, I travelled all around America with six other SuicideGirls, performing in 25 different cities across the country. So how exactly did I end up…
Goddamn, I miss dancing! More than travelling. More than doing drag. I miss the fun. I miss the release. I miss moving my body in all kinds of crazy ways. I miss the exercise. I miss feeling like I’m compelled to…
