Hello there 40. I’ve finally arrived. Not sure what my younger self expected my life to look like when I... Read More
I turn 40 next week. Yup, that milestone birthday’s finally here. How am I feeling about transitioning into a new... Read More
One of the most important things I’ve learnt while exploring ethical non-monogamy is that support is out there. Weirdly, when... Read More
One of the easiest and most transparent ways to meet other non-monogamous people is online. While there sadly aren’t many... Read More
As someone who regularly writes about polyamory, you could easily assume I’m a polyevangelist. You know the type: smug, thinks their... Read More
Polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships… there are many terms used to describe relationship models that fit under the non-monogamy umbrella.... Read More
A few years ago, I’d just finished lipsyncing to Shout Out to My Ex at The Royal Vauxhall Tavern when a baby... Read More
You probably don’t realise it but non-monogamy is rife in TV dramas. Unfortunately, it’s the unethical kind (also known as... Read More
When I came across the term ‘skoliosexual’ last year, I was pretty excited. As someone who is predominantly attracted to... Read More
When we first went into lockdown, I thought we’d all come bursting out of it with nothing short of complete... Read More
Last year I emerged from a 10+ year relationship and suddenly discovered how much the dating scene had changed. Back... Read More
If you’re new to non-monogamy, one of the things that’s hard to wrap your head around is all the jargon... Read More
